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Unfortunately, I haven’t managed to have one positive experience with online dating and the conclusion I’ve come to is that it really isn’t for me, so I’m pulling in my nets. In my experience, there isn’t a lot of options out there, you leave yourself open to abuse and hassle from strangers, and you spend a lot of time wasting time, and not in the John Lennon sense. But the main reason I really don’t like it is because you only get a snippet of someone, and that snippet, for me, isn’t enough to take a chance on.

So in conclusion, I know that internet dating and cyber friendships work for some people, but for me and the way in which I live my life, it seems unnatural. It seems forced. It seems false and fictional. I feel like I’m cheating myself out of a whole experience, and like I’m skipping crucial steps needed to get to know someone.

I think I’m gonna take a little break from dating. After all, when you stop chasing the wrong things, you give the right things a chance to catch you.

Catch ya later,

Ren.